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Thursday, May 11, 2006 

Rather Be Right or Have Peace?

How many arguments would be avoided if I sought peace rather than my own "rightness"?

I think a lot of us could ask that question. It happens the moment we get into conversation crossing the line of communication and instead becoming forceful, accusational and defensive. Whether out of insecurity, defiance, conquest... What is it that causes a person to completely forget the quality of the relationship and suddenly seek blood?

Feelings get hurt. The arena of safety is thrown out the window. All we're left with is chaos.

I've determined to be more of an observer in my own journey. It's causing me to question motives, influence and whose best interest is my focus. On a very deep level, it's a constant challenge. We can be so fickle and most times, we don't even realize why.

- Now loosing the preoccupation of self. Wanna join?


Love this kid... my nephew, Stewie.

are you stating what you think sounds good or what you truly believe?

people will live what they truly believe, good or bad...the evidence can always be found in their daily lives...Angus, people around you see the fruit...

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queenofsun-shinydays sent a duplicate posting. I tried to delete, but I guess it's still stated.

As for Anonymous, I wrote it because I believe it... did you ask because you doubt it for me, for you, or for anyone?

I wonder If you can guess who this is ? I just need you to know how wonderful I think you are.
love ya .. ur little sis

Anonymous, if I'm correct, you actually gave birth to the child above.

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